It’s 21 century and many people tried out dating websites. But how can you finally experience successful online dating with decent guys and without offensive offers?Before signing up for a dating website you need to identify your goal. Are you looking just for a friend or a chat when you are bored? Or maybe a guy for a short period, or are you looking a decent man for a serious long term relationship? These tips are for the successful online dating for women who are looking serious long term relationship.
Before signing up for a dating website you need to identify your goal. Are you looking just for a friend or a chat when you are bored? Or maybe a guy for a short period, or are you looking a decent man for a serious long term relationship? These tips are for the successful online dating for women who are looking serious long term relationship.
Your picture on the online dating website.
One of the most important part you’re your profile and your presence is your profile picture. Many women receive a lot of worthless and even offensive messages because they upload wrong pictures of themselves.
Try to avoid alcohol, blurry images, and other men on your pictures. You can find a complete list of tips for your picture in the course “Women’s game by men’s rule’s” among with other advice.
Many women lower chances of being found by decent men simply ignoring their profile. The part about your age and who you want to found. If you really want to find a serious relationship, you must check only “long-term relationship”. I wouldn’t recommend checking “marriage”, but you have to identify yourself as a serious woman who ignores sex offers.
Don’t be afraid to scare a man with that, serious and successful men don’t have much time and they appreciate when a woman has a clear message.
Another thing is your age. We all try to look better, more beautiful, younger and more attractive. But there is no point of lying about your age. You think the guy wouldn’t notice or he wouldn’t care if he is into you. But the truth is, guys notice when you tell you are 5-10 years younger. And by a small lie, you might loose the credibility and trust. It doesn’t worth it. Put your real age. Maximum 1-2 years younger if it makes you feel more confident.
Another way you can attract a decent man is to intrigue him with your interests. The majority of women just check standard list like music, movies, books etc. You need a hook in order to stand out among thousands of average profiles.
Put anything average woman wouldn’t do. Like painting a shooting star at 4 am, the listening sound of the wind on the top of the tallest building in your town, helping homeless pets or volunteering at the local museum. Maybe you swam with the dolphins in the South East Sea or took pictures with penguins in Antarctica.
Just think what you would like to do, everyone has something that makes their life brighter. And if you don’t have any hobbies, think about getting one. Then your chances to meet a good man will increase dramatically.
Your mood for successful online dating.
Try to describe yourself not too serious. You don’t want to look boring. But in the same time don’t be too playful. It might appear as you interested in sex only.
Your first message.
Also, don’t forget about the importance of the first message. Your profile and your first message will help you to make a good first impression. Don’t be afraid to write about yourself. No need to describe every story you remember, but feel free to explain your personality and your world view. But leave a place for an intrigue to attract a decent man.
Your profile and your messages are only the way to stay out among thousands of other women’s profiles and the way to hook the guy and be memorable. Every man sees hundreds of profiles but asks for a date only a few women. And if a guy successful, he doesn’t have much time to date with worthless (in his opinion) women. And your goal is to convince him you worth to meet. That’s the only purpose of the online dating websites.
“Women’s game by men’s rules” will help you to find a successful and serious man, be popular and attractive not only online, but also in real life.