Flirting, flirting, flirting… There are thousands of books, articles have been written about it. So many movies and educational videos have been made. But people still wondering how to flirt and does it mean. Does flirting actually helps to “hook up” the person?
You know what I hear all the time? The same old complain by friends around me when they miss out on someone whom they are attracted to because they couldn’t communicate their feelings perfectly. This usually stems from fear of rejection or acute shyness. If you don’t want to approach the epitome of beauty or that handsome guy you just came across due to fear of rejection, there are subtle ways you can communicate with that person. This subtle medium of passing advances is known as flirting.
Flirting is an art that involves letting people know that you are nursing romantic feeling for them. To be frank, flirting is an age-long art because it is fundamental to our existence. Our entire survival as humans is strongly connected to flirting. If we stop practicing this art, falling in love and reproducing will soon disappear. Even though nature has bestowed us with the necessary organs and parts needed to guarantee our continuous existence, few people still are versed in using them to their best advantage. This reason is particularly why you need to master the art of flirting.
Flirting can be broken down into three major types: Social, Public and Private. Social flirting signal sexual interest by adding a sexual element to the interaction. Public flirting is a spontaneous and harmless way to brighten up one’s day. And private flirting radiates sex appeal and enhances one’s ability to make someone fall in love with you within a very short time frame.
Now to the business of private of flirting. How do you make someone fall in love with you at first sight? There are many tips given by social psychologists and relationship professionals and here are few of them.
Make Eye Contact Is Equal to Flirting.
The first thing you need to do when you meet someone that is attracted to you is to make eye contact. Looking away spontaneously is a hint that you’re not interested in the person or you are shy. However, making eye contact doesn’t mean you should continuously stare at someone blankly or threateningly. Let your eyes communicate your interest and admiration for the person. Make use of your eyes perfectly and see the person completely fall for you.
Smile Is The Part Of Successful Flirting.
There is nothing more alluring than a smiling face. It is heart-melting and romantic. Let your smile brighten up the mood in the room that it allows you subtly reveal your vulnerability but in a strong way. Smiling is the simplest way to tell a person that you like and love to be around them. So, let your smile soften your target and make them want to be around you too.
You Moves Are Important When You Are Flirting.
Without even uttering a world, you can say a lot through body language. Good look matters but it is not enough to make someone fall in love with you. If you desire to be a master of the art of flirting, you need to be able to attract someone through body language like a magnet. Your body language is the mirror of your inner thoughts, and your target party will likely understand your heart wishes through your evident gesture. The way you speak, the look on your face and how you conduct yourself are all elements of body language that can make your crush want to cling to you.
Some of us are born to flirt, others possess natural flirting skills which depends on the situation at hand, and some of us are clueless and need to be taught the art of flirting – the truth is that we all have the potential but utilize it in unique manners. You don’t have to be intense about flirting to avoid putting your target on defensive mode – thought of you being a player. Learn to flirt with respect, style, and subtlety, and you will surely make yourself irresistible.